The main difference is that one didn’t have any attached images, while the other included pictures and mentioned my career as a model.Naturally I was intrigued by how each profile inspired very different replies—sometimes from the same person!From that moment I knew this was someone I never wanted to meet. Lesson #4: If you’re genuinely interested in a woman, don’t put pressure on her. (Again, that could be cool)”What made this message so effective was that Mike didn’t simply show that he had memorized the details of my profile; although regurgitating that information makes it clear that you at least took the other person seriously, Mike went the extra step by being light-hearted and comical—even a little weird—in his response.
Another big part of Mark’s mistake was that he applied pressure almost right away.
As I was in the middle of putting my daughter to bed, I responded with “Lol” and proceeded to finish what I had been doing.