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He negotiated for her to move in with him, and that’s where they stand.
How long did you date your partner before he or she popped the question?
But then we got to know each other even more, we got into some necessary arguments, and our love grew even stronger.
Or patiently allowing him to fall in love with her, to consider her his best friend, to know that he can’t picture his life without her? I proposed to my wife after 14 months because my girlfriend was 38, we both wanted kids, and I was a dating coach who finally figured out what was important in life. I have three very close friends who were with their girlfriends for 3 years before proposing. The problem is that it’s not comfortable for you to walk this tightrope, investing more and more time with a man who is not ready to commit. This is just moving deck chairs around the Titanic, spinning wheels, making noise. If a man wants to do something and if he’s so into a woman and fear of losing her, he’ll do anything in his might to keep her. We got married less than six months later than our engagement.We are both in our 30s, and I think once you reach a certain age, you know what you want and you know what you need and when you find it, you hold on tight." Nine months: "I remember thinking at three months that I would totally marry him right now.If he doesn’t want to marry you, it’s time for him to let you go. Only some version of “I’m not ready,” or “I’m not sure”. What you don’t want is to be the woman who holds on, hopefully, giving him everything he wants and sacrificing everything that you want.
I know someone who has spent 7 years – her childbearing years – waiting for her boyfriend to propose. If you’re willing to be that woman – the one who waits forever for the day that never comes, then that’s your prerogative. We discussed moving in together when my lease is up in October, but now I know he’s not ready. I tell him that he can still have that if we’re living together, but he’s still not sure when he’ll be ready. He feels really strongly about living with me and equates it to marriage.